"Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love was beyond my control". This is the beginning of an exultant relationship. Most people think they must find love but the truth is love finds them. There is no need of seeking love because when the adequate time arrives, she or he will meet that one companion who would surcease all sadness. That companion will be immediately characterized by some qualities that will make him o her unique and compatible.
Everybody's match is different and will fulfill the other one's needs. Envy is not an acceptable feeling in a relationship. It should be bursting with trust, honesty, friendship, loyalty and it will never be banal. That person will be by his or her side unconditionally no matter the circumstance. She or he will know everything about the other; how they feel, what are they thinking, what is the best for the other, etc. Disputations will be minute compared with the love they feel for each other. Devotion will characterize their relationship. Passion will maintain the spark of their love alive.
Patience is the key for a healthy relationship. That one person will arrive when God says the time is right. Everyone's soul mate, as people call them, is unique in it's own way. Just wait for him or her to arrive, and when that day comes, don't let him or her go away. "To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part".